This post is dedicated to the teachers, mentors, coaches and other adults that influence the life of a child living with scoliosis. You play an important role in the healthy development of these children. Your support not only helps the child, but also their parents as they navigate uncertain waters deciding the best treatment plan for their son or daughter. Below I’ve listed 4 tips to help you as you support the children in your life who are facing the scoliosis condition.
1. Help them develop a kind inner voice
One of the best gifts you can give a child is to help them develop a healthy self-esteem and confidence that will serve them well in adulthood. Combat negative thinking by helping them see the positive in life experiences to see a bigger picture outside of themselves. It’s through adversity that we find our strength. Nurture this.
2. Encourage them to participate in new activities
There are many scary aspects of childhood and a scoliosis diagnosis can make the world an even scarier place than it already is. If you notice a child withdrawing and choosing to not participate in physical activities, provide support by teaching them the thrill of trying something new and the humor in getting things a little wrong the first time or two. Be a superstar by teaching them the value in learning from one’s mistakes and prevent the perfectionist mindset that holds many of us back.
3. Draw attention to their strengths
If you notice something they do particularly well, tell them. Reinforcing aspects of personality, interests and what delights you about them will bring balance back to their lives to counter the focus that’s being made on their body.
4. Guide them to feel their feelings
There will be times they feel scared, sad, frustrated, agitated, insecure, the list goes on and on. By helping them better understand the role these feelings play in their lives will help them use them in the right way and not be ruled by them. This will help them have an increased sense of self-awareness and grow their ability to better communicate their feelings with others.
I write to you dear teacher/mentor/coach/family friend because the last thing I want you to feel is helpless. You play a very important role in the scoliosis journey. Your experiences will help shape the future of this child. Show them how bright that future can be.
Warmly,
